SEX THERAPY IN PHILADELPHIA

Sex Therapist

Erectile Dysfunction (e.g. Impotence)

in Philadelphia

If, for the last three months, you have experienced an inability to attain / sustain an erection sufficient for a satisfactory sexual experience and it bothers you (or your partner) then you meet the definition of having “An Erectile Dysfunction.” The term erectile dysfunction (ED), is frequently used by professionals because it is more precise than simply calling the problem ‘impotence’ impotence, includes not only the above definition of an ED but is also refers to a man being sterile and/or a man having a penis that lacks strength and vigor.

You are not alone. Having an Erectile dysfunction is one of the most common untreated problems in the world. In the United States alone, ED affects 20-30 million men. Contributing factors towards ED is cigarette smoking, medication (e.g. for high blood pressure, depression), kidney failure, diabetes, being out of shape, drug and alcohol abuse, depression, anxiety and communication problems.

While sex is a private matter, usually only discussed between you and your partner, you might benefit from working with an urologist, who specializes in ED and a therapist specializing in sexual health to improve the quality of your sex life. The urologist will help you cope with the medical aspects of the problem. Specifically, he will perform special tests to evaluate the nerves, arteries and veins that control the erection process. If a medical problem is found, he can perform surgery and / or prescribe medication. A sex therapist will help you cope with the psychological aspects contributing towards your ED. Common psychological issues are: depression, anxiety about sexual performance, stress from home or work life, marriage problems, and unresolved sexual orientation issues. Most people who seek treatment for ED experience some degree of embarrassment, guilt and poor self-esteem. The role of a physician and a therapist is to help you fix the situation, not to judge you. Remember, when you are seeking help, you are not paying the person to be your friend, you are paying the person to provide you with the tools to enable you to maintain an erection so that you can have a satisfying sex.

Sexperts agree, the first step towards treating an Erectile dysfunction is to understand the definition. The second step is to rule out medical factors causing the problem. Please note, if a man is able to achieve an erection during sleep, then the ED is most likely caused from a psychological issue and better treated by a therapist. The therapist will help couples develop good communication skills. Typically, when a sex related problem develops couples begin to avoid, deny or become angry that there is a problem. Through a commitment to an exploration of the treatment options and talking about ones thoughts and feelings most people will resume having a good sex life.

Improving Sexual Performance

Treatment for Getting or Maintaining an Erection: What to Expect

Erectile Dysfunction

Sexual techniques

Premature Ejaculation

Premature Ejaculation & Sexual Anxiety

Bringing the romance back

How to use touch to get the most out of sex, (Touch)


Communication Tips

  • Communication Skills CS
  • Sexual Communication SCS


  • Recommended links
    about Impotence

    Institute for Sexual Medicine
    www.bumc.bu.edu/sexualmedicine

    International Society for Impotence Research
    www.urolog.nl/isir/

    Society for Study of Impotence
    www.socsi.com

    Institute for Sexual Medicine
    www.bumc.bu.edu/sexualmedicine

    Successfully Treating Impotence
    www.impotent.com/


    Sexuality Concerns

    Erection difficulties ED
    Fertility problems FP
    Impotence IMP
    Orgasm Difficulties Org
    Painful intercourse PI
    Painful vaginal spasms PVS
    Pregnancy Problems P
    Premature ejaculation PE
    Sexual addictions SA
    Low sex drive LSD
    Sexual Orientation Confusion SOC
    Sexual Inexperience SI
    Sexually transmitted Infections (herpes) STI

    Have you experienced

    Sexual Aversion SA
    Sexual Boredom SB
    Negative Body Image NBI
    Embarrassment & Anxiety SE
    Depression D
    Chronic Pain
    Cheating Spouse / Infidelity CS
    Medical Problems MP
    Rape or Sexual Abuse RSA
    Relationship and Marital Problems RMP
    Communication Problems CP


    Founder of Sex Therapy
    in Philadelphia


    "Alex" Caroline Robboy, CAS,
    ACSW, LCSW

    If you live in Center City Philadelphia or the surrounding regions, including the Main Line, Montgomery County, Bucks County, Chestery County, Cherry Hill and Southern New Jersey area and want to schedule an appointment for individual therapy, couples therapy, marriage counseling, sex therapy, family therapy or play therapy call (267) 324-9564.

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